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When planning a wedding, there are a lot of moving parts. From florists and caterers to DJs and venues, every vendor plays a key role in making your big day perfect. However, one vendor will be with you more than any other: your wedding photographer.

Unlike your cake designer or your florist, who you might meet once or twice for a tasting (cake not flowers) or to chat all about what your vision for your day may be. Your photographer is there through every emotional, candid, and intimate moment of your wedding day. (Yup, often during parts where you may need help getting dressed) This is why getting to know your wedding photographer before the big day is crucial—not just to ensure beautiful photos, but to build a level of trust and comfort that will help you feel relaxed in front of the camera.

An emotional first look moment between father of the bride wearing a black tuxedo and a bride in her wedding dress in a warmly lit room.
Silhouette looking through window at autumn foliage with kitchen countertop items and radiator in view.
A couple strolls hand in hand down a sunlit street lined with autumn trees casting long shadows on a romantic wedding day.
Bridesmaid in a silk dress sits on a dark couch while emotionally reading letter written by bride and groom before ceremony.

The Photographer-Client Relationship Extends Before and After Your Wedding Day


Your relationship with your wedding photographer isn’t limited to the few hours they spend capturing your wedding. It actually begins well before the day and often extends long after. Long before you say “I do,” you’ll likely have a consultation, pre-wedding photoshoot, and planning discussions with your photographer. This gives you both an opportunity to get to know each other on a personal level.

After your wedding day, your photographer is still an integral part of your wedding experience as they carefully edit, organise, and deliver the final gallery. The bond you’ve built throughout the process will help them know how to craft a collection that reflects the true spirit of your relationship and show your wedding as a story, from start to end.

Bride in a white robe wipes tears while reading a letter on a plaid chair at Stanford Farm.
Someone in a white shirt arranges clothing on hangers in a cozy room with wooden floors and decorative shelves.
Groom in a blue suit stands by a rustic window, with warm interior lighting casting a moody atmosphere near Forden.
Black and white photo showing bridemaids carrying wedding dress for bride at Tower Hill Barn.

The Time You Spend Together on Your Wedding Day


On the day of the wedding, your photographer (hopefully, me) will spend more time with you (vendor wise) than anyone else, even if it is just in the background. They’re there for the tender moments while you’re getting ready, the quiet moments before you walk down the aisle, and the celebratory moments at your reception. Essentially, they’re your shadow for most of the day and the aim is to be a super big comfort to you too.

This means that feeling comfortable around your photographer is vital. If you’re nervous or uneasy, it’ll show in the photos. When you’ve had the chance to really connect with your photographer before the big day, it feels like you have a pal there with you, helping you, cheering you on and being your get out of jail free card if you want to escape for some peace throughout the day.

You’ll also find that photographers who know you well will be able to anticipate the moments that matter most. Whether it’s the way you light up when you see your partner, or the little inside jokes that make you smile, a photographer who truly understands you can capture those special, unscripted moments. The little touches & looks that are captured which then last forever in a photo.

Bride and her mother share a joyful laugh while holding a vibrant orange and red flower bouquet at a formal event at Berwick House.
A romantic outdoor wedding reception table setup with red floral arrangements and rustic wooden decor at Stanford Farm.
Two women embrace in a tender moment, one wearing an emerald green dress and one in a white wedding gown with veil in Shrewsbury
A tender moment during wedding preparations as a boutonniere is pinned onto a gray suit jacket in black and white at Lyde Court.

Getting to Know Each Other – What Makes You Tick


Beyond just understanding your photography style, getting to know each other allows your photographer to learn what makes you tick. They’ll know what gets you to laugh, how to bring out your natural smile, or when you might need a quiet moment to yourself. This kind of relationship transforms the experience from a simple client-vendor interaction to a genuine connection, making your photographer feel more like an ally on your wedding day than just someone with a camera.

Moreover, when you share common interests or personality traits, it can enhance your comfort level. For me, I know the kinds of couples who book me are the ones that are down for a laugh, a love a curse word and often love a good pint. Finding common ground can create a more natural and enjoyable experience, making posing feel less forced and more like spending time with a friend who truly gets you.

A framed 'Booze Shaking Zone' sign displayed on a wooden table next to wine bottles and turquoise glassware.
A person in a dark suit taking a photo of bride at a wedding while others look on.
At a rustic wedding reception, a person in a vest gives an emotional speech while others listen at the dinner table at Lyde Court.
A person in a wedding dress holds a colorful bouquet while standing by a window with floral curtains at Walcott Hall.

A Photographer Who Feels Like a Pal!


Ultimately, having a wedding photographer who feels like a pal is priceless. When you’re at ease with someone, it shows in your body language and in the photos. Genuine smiles, spontaneous moments of joy, and true emotion are all captured effortlessly when there’s a connection between you and your photographer.

When you trust your photographer, you can be yourself. You’re free to focus on the magic of the day, confident that your photographer knows exactly how to capture it. Instead of feeling like you’re “posing” for pictures, you’ll feel like you’re simply enjoying your day with a friend by your side.

Vintage black and white photo showing people walking on a path beside old buildings and tree branches overhead at Walcott Hall
A small child wearing suspender shorts and a bow tie sits by a window, playfully holding dark sunglasses to their face.
Bride in a white pjs opens champagne while getting ready in a room with a fireplace and ornate rug in Montgomery before wedding.
A couple walking together on an autumn day near a historic stone church, bride wearing lace dress with bouquet in The Quarry, Shrewsbury.

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While your wedding photographer’s job is to capture beautiful images, their role is so much more than that. They are the vendor who will spend the most time with you, both before, during, and after your wedding. Getting to know them is essential for ensuring that they not only capture your day beautifully but that they also help you feel comfortable, relaxed, and present in the moment.

So, take the time to connect with your photographer. Share stories, laugh together, and build a rapport. When your photographer feels like a friend, your photos will reflect the true, authentic love that you share with your partner—capturing the moments that matter most.

Groomsmen throwing groom in the air on wedding day at Stanford Farm, Shrewsbury